Am I too cynical?

I've been thinking about some of my reactions to people of late and see that I've taken a huge turn toward what I used to dislike about blogs. I've been quick to pick a fight, while criticizing others for the same behavior. I do remember a time when I was more focused on conversation and less on confrontation. I've decided that I want to return to that. I am now focusing on being present and aware of the things that I type and how they might be taken. My goal is to do this without compromising my principles, but to express my principles in a way that would make people more open to hearing about them. I see that my vitriol does nothing but solidify bad stereotypes that people hold about some of my beliefs, and that I'm doing myself, and my values, a disservice by being caustic or "mean", as I was recently accused of being. That's all, I'm just going to try to be nicer.

Comments

Good on you Rob

Perhaps we can come up with a list of good blogging guidelines. Not rules, but something to remind me that if I hold by these five standards, I will not feel like an ass tomorrow.

I don't think you are too cynical

but I feel that I know you reasonably well at this point. I think that your goal here is a good one though. Trying to improve communication is a good thing right?

I commend your goal to be

I commend your goal to be nicer, it's one I should lean towards too. As for being cynical, however, I see that as just a natural consequence of Age and Experience catching up.

Damn the United States! I wish I may never hear of the United States again!
Philip Nolan, the man without a country

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