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Submitted by Sarah on Fri, 09/01/2006 - 12:49pm.
I'm inventing this story, this is not an actual news story, and I'm not focusing on any one real person. The general overall shape of the story is combined from several true and invented stories, all created to get us to the end message.
» He is a big guy with a gun. Tall, healthy, strong, an armed police officer. He is shouting directions at a woman. She is small, older, appears frail and confused, and is shaking. He doesn't sound nice. His voice is loud, he is flat out ordering her to comply. He knows her name and is using it. Read more:
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Sad really. I really do not
Submitted by Norm on Fri, 09/01/2006 - 2:57pm.Admire
Submitted by Sarah on Fri, 09/01/2006 - 3:16pm.In a way, it must be sorta like being a parent, in that sometimes parents have to do things that are in the long range best, but in the moment looks not at all nice. Sometimes some of us need help with boundaries and safety more than just someone being passively nice to us.
But to be that person setting the boundaries and even actually detaining someone, while knowing that to witnesses this all looks cruel, plus not having the time to explain anything....tough situation indeed.
My hope is that everyone is trained well and that they truly do support each other.
With four to five people, it
Submitted by Phil Owen on Sat, 09/02/2006 - 12:41pm.Also, it is almost never too late to try just a simple smile and some friendly words. If there is time to be stern and verbally aggressive, there is time to be friendly. I can't count the number of times that, working as an EMT, I've talked down very angry, paranoid, mentally ill patients. I talked them down well enough that they were willing to voluntarily accept four-point restraints. All it takes is patience and compassion. If this doesn't work, soft restraints and four to five people will.
I completely agree Phil.
Submitted by Norm on Sat, 09/02/2006 - 1:18pm.Art of de-escalation
Submitted by Sarah on Sun, 09/03/2006 - 10:07am.I spent a pleasant afternoon in Sylvester Park recently while talking with a man I'd just met, he told me a story of years back here in Olympia, when he was able to intervene in a potentially bad situation by remaining calm himself, speaking compassionately and directly to the agitated person, getting eye contact, and in the process relaxing everyone involved.
I think de-escalation and conflict resolution should be taught in school, if it isn't taught at home.