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Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 7:04pm.
We've had some nice discussion on the blog about how to handle some of the unruly behavior of late, and one of the suggestions was to create a Social Contract that everyone would agree to. I think this is something that we must do as a community, and we should have done long ago. Towards that end, I've created a wiki page (at wetpaint.com) that we can all use to create a new Social Contract. I've started with some language from an existing Social Contract, just to get us off the ground (and because I like it). Anyone can add, delete, change and, hopefully, improve the language. So, have at it, and let's make something that works for OlyBlog.
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Rule #62
Submitted by Anonymously Larry on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 7:39pm.I'm not sure how to submit thoughts, so I'll just do this and leave it up to Rick or someone else to decide.
An AA group was putting together rules of civility and operation. As you can imagine, get a group of drunks, in various stages of sobriety, together and it can be a real barn burner. The one thing they agreed with unanimously was what they called "Rule #62"
"Don't take ourselves too damned seriously"
It has been the catalyst of the group for over 50 years.
I'm sure they wouldn't mind us using it
That is a very good comment
Submitted by wilson on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:06pm.And a useful one
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:08pm.I hope the social contract
Submitted by wilson on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:23pm.Edit the Wiki
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:30pm.For what it's worth, I did. I'm still of the opinion the uber liberals and greeners will still try and shove their weight around, but who knows. I could be wrong. It has happened before.
The problem with Wikis are that they tend to seek the level of those editing them,
I'm going to try and be constructive here
Submitted by Norm on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:34pm.You are starting an argument. Using language like, I'm still of the opinion the uber liberals and greeners will still try and shove their weight around, but who knows. vs something like, I still don't feel that certain rules will be enforced in a uniform manner among all parties.
Or were you trying to start a fire?
Thanks, Norm
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:38pm.You beat me to it.
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Same thing
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:39pm.Different wording, albeit tongue in cheek. This is the big fear isn't it? That certain groups with certain ideals and leanings will continue to dominate? Why beat around the bush?
One can avoid using certain words, or one can. Either way, most people will get the meaning. Why supress it?
And no, for the record I wasn't trying to start anything.
Check the Federalist No. 10
Submitted by darrow on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 11:14am.That's exactly why
Submitted by Guglielmo on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 11:34am.I know...
Submitted by Carmella on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 2:03pm.I know it's like, why can't i just call you a douche bag, S6? I mean, instead of pointing out your when your comments contain patriarchal ideology, I should just say it: you are the embodiment of a woman-hating invention, right?
The word liberal and greener is not a neutral term because both those words have been taken from denotations, to connote negative things. During the conservative revival in the 70's the word liberal was made to mean a bad thing. Furthermore, the term greener is not used to describe everyone who attends that school, would you call a working mother of 2 who attends TESC a greener? who you call a conservative who attends TESC a greener? probably not, a greener refers to a privileged, idealistic, "liberal" young person.
That method of dissing and discrediting liberals and leftists developed around the Vietnam War too. The media and critics of anti-war activists would often claim that the protesters were just a group of rich kids. So the term greener is not only a bad word, but it denys the existence of a lot of it's attendees who aren't rich, white, young, and childless.
So I guess it's funny that S6 can call people folks liberals and greeners and i can't call him a douche bag.
I think the social contract is a good idea.Oh my....
Submitted by Anonymously Larry on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 3:02pm.:::::standing applause::::
Go ahead
Submitted by security_six on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 9:39pm.Would you mind checking the attitude?
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:36pm.S6: Nobody has edited or censored you here, so would you mind letting up on the continuous mantra?
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Mantra
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 9:43pm.Don't think I am using a mantra here Rick
I never claimed censorship in this thread either. Simply restated some fears and opinions that have been expressed. Tell me if I am wrong, but the dominant leadership here appears to be extreme liberals and greeners? Or are you offended by those terms?
Do you really think we need to beat around the bush here?
What does that mean?
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:07pm.Liberals and greeners? Why do you feel the need to keep pointing this out? (It's not even true, for what its worth.)
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Okay
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:25pm.It is called a generalization. If it isn't true, then I welcome the correction.
I suppose though you will tell me there isn't a strong liberal mindset here, especially amongst some of those running the place?
At any rate if you don't like being tagged a liberal, or a Greener, please tell me and I won't tag you as such anymore.
Six, I have some reluctance in the back of my head
Submitted by Norm on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:14pm.and I'll voice it when I've given it a few days to all sink in. I really think it should be done in a constructive manner though. Name-calling isn't going to get us anywhere.
Oh, and liberals and greeners don't cover the bases. You have progressives, socialists, anarchists, and everything in-between running around on the blog.
True
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:27pm.See above for "generalization" as I said though, liberals and greeners "running" the blog, not "running around" on the blog.
Perhaps it is offensive to call someone a liberal or a greener? If it is then I will quietly withdraw into my prior position. I don't take offense at political labels that apply to me.
At any rate I am pretty sure Rick is either a liberal and/or a Greener, and does exercise a lot of influence on how things are done here, so I was at least somewhat correct.
Big "Rick" fetish you got going there.
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:51pm.Come over to my place and I'll give you the full meal deal.
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
I'm really trying to be serious
Submitted by Norm on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:54pm.Mission Accomplished!
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:01pm.> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Glad to see the funny...
Submitted by Norm on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:59pm.Damn
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:02pm.Is that constructive?
Just a bit on the creepy side eh?
Seems to me you have your own "fetishes".
Do you have some anger management issues? Or just some hidden desires? Quite frankly you are really sounding creepy here.
Lighten up...
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:02pm.Mister BIG GUN guy. Do you wear it in bed? Can I touch it?
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Are you gay?
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:05pm.A hoplophobe, or deep inside your head do you think you are giving me a taste of "my own medicine?" Quite frankly I think you are showing your true self here, but in the intrests of good taste I am going to withhold opinions here. You are doing a good job of making yourself out as an ass.
Save your strange attempts at counseling for people who pay you.
What???
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:12pm.You mean...you don't like my sense of humor big cowboy? Well, suck it up...or should I do that for you?
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Hehe
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:16pm.I find what you are saying quite funny, and funnier still in that I am fairly certain you are trying to "teach a lesson" here. Your misguided attempts to mock my past behavior and make unfounded statements are quite humorous. I hereby pass the OlyBlog Asshole Crown off to you Rick.
BTW, I don't recall having made sexually suggestive statements before, nor made implications about a person's sexual preferences. I suggest you refrain from the same. Even as over the top as I have been before, you are really pushing it.
At any rate I suspect many here are enjoying the "Real Rick" coming out for a change. Mr. Play Nice and Be Constructive seems to really be an angry homosexual hoplophobe with delusions of granduer.
Da big bad cowboy man doesn't want to play??
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:20pm.He only likes it when HE gets to make the rules. Well, honey, that ain't the way the world works. Could you use some other big words that no one knows?? Its soooooo sexy!!
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
You are out of control
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:28pm.And I think it is funny as hell. You have spent so much time working with unexpressive children that their mentality has finally stuck with you. Maybe if you didn't get so wrapped up in your work and could seperate it from your regular life, you could cope better without having to resort to crudities and insults.
Go ahead and continue in this vein, it's funny, and entertaining. Plus others are probably just shaking their heads at you Rick.
Perhaps you work well with children because you haven't gotten past some issues yourself? Should I keep going? I suspect I can push your buttons all night long, all day tomorow, and keep on going until I get bored.
I deal with weirdos like you every day at work. Self righteous buffoons are a dime a dozen in this town, and worth about as much.
Shall I continue? You felt the urge to make direct personal attacks and I am responding in kind.
Please note, that as a person who choses to be a gun rights supporter, making snide gun comments really doesn't irritate me. I've come to expect that sort of limited mentality from people like you.
You'll know when I get bored with you when I quit responding. Meanwhile, as I said you are entertaining and even a bit funny in a sad, lonely sort of way.
I know, baby...
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:33pm....you just keep coming back for more. You LIKE it like that, don't you?
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
I direct your attention
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:36pm.I just think you're so interesting.
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:38pm.I can't help it!
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Is This An Example
Submitted by JstPlnOnry on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:25pm.of what can potentially land you in the 'Dog House'? Or why we need a Social Contract? If anybody else had said this, would it have been acceptable?
Personally, I find it hilarious but coming from Rick it sure seems to be a double standard. Especially when the Dog House was Rick's idea precisely for statements like this and he was the one that wrote the proposed Social Contract.
Oh. Now it's all serious.
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:26pm.Who's got the double standard again?
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Proof
Submitted by JstPlnOnry on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:55pm.It's OK for some, not others. The difference is, the others can take it while some can't!
Have fun kiddos! I'm getting some rest so I can ride the Toy Run tomorrow!
hmm...
Submitted by enpen on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 12:04am.I'm getting some rest so I can ride the Toy Run tomorrow!
I think it's the other comments that make this one questionable...
I, for one, think this is hilarious!
Submitted by jlw on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 12:09pm.Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo
It's not offensive to be
Submitted by Merwyn Haskett on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 7:33am.Tone and Intent mean everything in a conversation; Online communication makes it very difficult or impossible to know the tone and intent.
Please give me a second grace. Please give me a second face. I've fallen far down, the first time around, now I just sit on the ground in your way.
Nick Drake
Exactly!
Submitted by darrow on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 11:17am.Not all of the docents are liberal
Submitted by Norm on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 12:22pm.What I mind
Submitted by jlw on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 12:41pm.Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo
I resent that
Submitted by Norm on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 12:44pm.not very funny - Really, that hurt
Not you, Norm
Submitted by jlw on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 1:06pm.Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo
But....but....but.....
Submitted by Norm on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 9:22pm.I have some
Submitted by security_six on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 9:43pm.Festive tinfoil hats for sale. Red, and green just in time for the holidays! :-p
That's exactly how I've felt about Olyblog lately
Submitted by JulieM on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 2:20pm.It seems like some users are looking for a chatroom. I also think that those complaining of a lack of sense of humor around here just aren't very funny.
Rick, I thought the social contract looked great and appreciate all the time you've put into this.
Are you all sure?
Submitted by CIAGuy on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:35pm.I Second
Submitted by JstPlnOnry on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 10:46pm.Oh yeah, I'll see you both
Submitted by wilson on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:32pm.LOL
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:35pm.Oh man.
Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:36pm.You so don't have a clue do you? 'night sweetie pie!
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
anyway, good humor in it
Submitted by wilson on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:35pm.Just amazing
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:37pm.Ain't it? The funny part is he probably thinks he is teaching a lesson. Or is on drugs. Or both.
Oly is an amazing place, it always keeps me entertained.
I think
Submitted by security_six on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 11:45pm.Rick hijacked his own thread!
As I said before, I have said a lot of offensive, and mean spirited things, but I have not made sexual suggestions nor until just recently refered to a person's sexual preferences.
Rick, while you are for the most part funny as hell tonight, you are really offensive with the whole guns as phallic symbols suggestions and related inuendos. I probably am giving you more ammo by saying this, but do believe that you are the most offensive and out of control presence on this board now. You made your point, albeit in a childish manner. I'll keep up with your banter as long as I am awake, but will go on record for being offended at some of what you have brought up.
If you want to pretend you are teaching a lesson, that's fine. Don't cross lines I haven't though. It only shows your lack of judgement.
Sorry to rub your nose in it...
Submitted by Rick on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 10:00am....but now perhaps you can apologize to Rob for using inappropriate humor when he was trying to have a serious conversation. You see, it's really all about paying attention to each other, listening, and not pushing the envelope at every opportunity. Here's a good strategy: imagine that you're going to be meeting up with everyone for a beer later -- so don't say things that you'd regret when you get together. (In fact, we'll probably start having regular meetups here pretty soon, so that people get to know each other in person.)
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
Ahh
Submitted by security_six on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 9:48pm.Rick's schizo other peace loving lesson teaching side comes back much as I predicted. Who I apologize to and when is my business, and I don't need you directing otherwise. Now would it be improper humor for me to call you a hack shrink? Probably, but I'll bet you won't let me get away with a rhetorical question, the way someone else did just recently on this thread.
I stated I will not issue an apology when it appears I am merely "ass kissing" in order to avoid some "dog house" Now this could be taken several ways, including that I realize I was over the top, but at this point an apology would look meaningless as it would merely appear that I was trying to avoid "trouble"
I have repeatedly acknowledged the fact that I was over the top.
I wonder if the port protesters will apologize for interfering with a truck driver just trying to make a living? Of course not, it was acceptable dissent, a protest against an "illegal" action. But openly mocking and in the process making a dissenting statement against a percived "over the top" action and reaction becomes unacceptable.
I will make an effort to avoid similiar "hijacking" but given the current state of affairs here, will not apologize for making a statement. I have acknowledged the mistakes I made while engaging in dissent, and have stated that I will make an effort not to repeat my actions. That Rick, will have to suffice for you.
The schizo Rick is funny though. You'll have to come out of your shell more often. It makes you nearly believable as a human being.
My two cents - don't feel overcharged
Submitted by Merwyn Haskett on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 7:55am.Six, every time you said something to the effect of "please continue, you're entertaining" you got exactly what you asked for.
I was laughing (not sure with Rick, at Rick, or both) but seriously especially in light of the fact that we're supposed to be discussing the social contract, I wonder if the same style of antagonizing humor would be considered acceptable if used against Rob W. about Iraq, against Rob R. about the homeless, against Janet about PlanB, Against Enpen about spraypaint artists, Against Meta about her campaign.
Six, if someone's saying a gun owner is "compensating" then that's offensive, but pointing out that guns are phallic isn't. Damn straight they're phallic, that's why we all want the biggest straight-shooter that doesn't shoot blanks.
Rick's comment about the "Rick fetish" and offering the full meal deal didn't necessarily have a sexual connotation, at least not denotationally.
I'm sure things like this will be addressed in the wiki but would this kind of banter be considered constructive? Would it be considered two men not backing down from insulting each other, each trying to get the last defiant defining word?
Should I change my sig line to "I know you are but what am I"?
Please give me a second grace. Please give me a second face. I've fallen far down, the first time around, now I just sit on the ground in your way.
Nick Drake
Good points...
Submitted by security_six on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 9:52pm.Six, every time you said something to the effect of "please continue, you're entertaining" you got exactly what you asked for.
I know. Much like a cat with a rodent while bored, The conversation was entertaining for a period of time. At some point though, some of what was being directed towards me I considered over the bounds of acceptable, bored messing with someone postings. I made those clear and stated my position. Everything else, well as I said, it was funny to see a particular person act a certain way for a while.
Nice try, Rick
Submitted by Anonymously Larry on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 9:09am.Thanks anyway.
Hold on a second here. This
Submitted by wilson on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 9:34am.I think that standards would be helpful.
Submitted by Mike on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 9:47am.And journalistic ethics about facts and accurate reporting, attributing correctly would be the way to go, but Olyblog carries a lot of posts that are more cultural and entertainment and not journalism. This is part of the reason that newspapers are organized as they are. Sports scores and stories are not generally front page stories, they are on the sports page. Editorial columns are generally not front page, they are on the editorial page, local stories are in the metro section, arts, books, films are in the arts section.
So I guess that is a suggestion to consider - maybe it makes sense to organize posts that are elevated to a home page from a personal blog into a blog section - news stories, true citizen journalism, like the fugitive arrest and some of the Port stories where standard journalistic standards apply.
There could also be a sports/guns/nascar section. An uber liberal and greener editorial section. A wingnut editorial section.
And I think there should be a slander, libel and malicious mischief section. Kind of a hall of shame section.
I think the social contract is wordy, no offense Rick, and would not reduce the conflict, tension, and anger that erupts here on occasion.
And I guess I would add one more section: Yellow journalism for posts that masquerade as journalism, but don't meet the ethical standards.
I'd like to see the Social Contract blog
Submitted by Anonymously Larry on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 10:08am.Started over again so that maybe it can be addressed originally intended.
I second that.
Submitted by Mike on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 10:13am.Consent of the governed
Submitted by darrow on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 11:47am.Although the proposed social contract appears to be well thought out and well intentioned, I personally am leery of encroachment upon my ability to freely express my thoughts.
I propose that public censure is adequate to check those who post items deemed inappropriate by the group. I believe that it would be impossible to encompass all potential problem areas--Justice Potter Stewart summed up this perspective nicely when he wrote, "[I] shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced within that shorthand description; and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But I know it when I see it. Jacobellis v. Ohio, 378 U.S. 184 (1964).
I think the contract could be shorted up to
Submitted by Guglielmo on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 11:53am.I like that idea...
Submitted by The Original Yoda on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 12:40pm....Guglielmo. And I also like the section idea from Mike. The less rules, the better, I'd say. I think people have got to work it out themselves.
I disagree with Security Six's characterization of folks. It certainly doesn't characterize me fully.
Finally, as far judging what a person is WORTH based on whatever information a person might have...
...I don't get that. My brain doesn't think like that and the idea that some people's brains go there, frankly, kinda scares me...
The wiki is open...
Submitted by Rick on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 12:51pm....so anyone can change it to what they think is better.
> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
So, how to I log in to edit the Wiki?
Submitted by M Kretzler on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 5:24pm.Most of this discussion was useless
Submitted by M Kretzler on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 5:29pm.Thanks Rick
Submitted by stevenl on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 7:47pm.It appears we are talking about two different things: a mission statement, and a social contract on the boundaries of civility.
As far as a mission statement goes, does the blurb "OlyBlog is devoted to hyperlocal news and discussion specifically about Olympia, Washington. Contributors to OlyBlog are citizen journalists who care about their community and are tired of corporate media" really describe us? If so, most of my contribs are really outside the scope of OlyBlog.
The social contract, which I think even us old-timers need to sign and agree to before we could be allowed to continue, would be a good thing. I'd like it if the words "trolls," "assholes" and "caimans" appeared in it with frequency as examples of what not to be. Other than that, it doesn't seem too wordy to me.
You forgot to mention
Submitted by Guglielmo on Sat, 12/01/2007 - 8:05pm.The thought
Submitted by stevenl on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 6:19am.I think we should have a way to vote people off the island
Submitted by jlw on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 12:27pm.Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo
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Submitted by DC on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 1:08pm.But I think Janet
Submitted by Guglielmo on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 1:44pm.I think I'll be okay....
Submitted by jlw on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 3:35pm.Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo
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Submitted by DC on Sun, 12/02/2007 - 4:01pm.