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Submitted by Rick on Fri, 11/30/2007 - 7:04pm.

We've had some nice discussion on the blog about how to handle some of the unruly behavior of late, and one of the suggestions was to create a Social Contract that everyone would agree to. I think this is something that we must do as a community, and we should have done long ago. Towards that end, I've created a wiki page (at wetpaint.com) that we can all use to create a new Social Contract. I've started with some language from an existing Social Contract, just to get us off the ground (and because I like it). Anyone can add, delete, change and, hopefully, improve the language. So, have at it, and let's make something that works for OlyBlog.

OlyBlog Social Contract Wiki

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Rule #62

I'm not sure how to submit thoughts, so I'll just do this and leave it up to Rick or someone else to decide.

An AA group was putting together rules of civility and operation.  As you can imagine, get a group of drunks, in various stages of sobriety, together and it can be a real barn burner.  The one thing they agreed with unanimously was what they called "Rule #62"

"Don't take ourselves too damned seriously"

It has been the catalyst of the group for over 50 years.

I'm sure they wouldn't mind us using it

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That is a very good comment

That is a very good comment
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And a useful one

at that
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I hope the social contract

I hope the social contract thing doesn't mean we can't disagree....or have any fun
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Edit the Wiki

For what it's worth, I did.  I'm still of the opinion the uber liberals and greeners will still try and shove their weight around, but who knows.  I could be wrong.  It has happened before. 

The problem with Wikis are that they tend to seek the level of those editing them, 

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I'm going to try and be constructive here

You are starting an argument. Using language like, I'm still of the opinion the uber liberals and greeners will still try and shove their weight around, but who knows. vs something like,  I still don't feel that certain rules will be enforced in a uniform manner among all parties. 

Or were you trying to start a fire?

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Thanks, Norm

You beat me to it.


> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
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Same thing

Different wording, albeit tongue in cheek.  This is the big fear isn't it?  That certain groups with certain ideals and leanings will continue to dominate?  Why beat around the bush?

One can avoid using certain words, or one can.  Either way, most people will get the meaning.  Why supress it? 

And no, for the record I wasn't trying to start anything. 

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Check the Federalist No. 10

Beware of the rise of majoritarian faction
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That's exactly why

I don't watch American Idol!
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I know...

I know it's like, why can't i just call you a douche bag, S6? I mean, instead of pointing out your when your comments contain patriarchal ideology, I should just say it: you are the embodiment of a woman-hating invention, right?

The word liberal and greener is not a neutral term because both those words have been taken from denotations, to connote negative things. During the conservative revival in the 70's the word liberal was made to mean a bad thing. Furthermore, the term greener is not used to describe everyone who attends that school, would you call a working mother of 2 who attends TESC a greener? who you call a conservative who attends TESC a greener? probably not, a greener refers to a privileged, idealistic, "liberal" young person.

That method of dissing and discrediting liberals and leftists developed around the Vietnam War too. The media and critics of anti-war activists would often claim that the protesters were just a group of rich kids. So the term greener is not only a bad word, but it denys the existence of a lot of it's attendees who aren't rich, white, young, and childless.

So I guess it's funny that S6 can call people folks liberals and greeners and i can't call him a douche bag.

I think the social contract is a good idea.
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Oh my....

:::::standing applause::::

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Go ahead

I for one am not going to get all prissy about being called a douche bag, of course I am pretty secure in my beliefs and ideals. 
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Would you mind checking the attitude?

S6: Nobody has edited or censored you here, so would you mind letting up on the continuous mantra?


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Mantra

Don't think I am using a mantra here Rick

I never claimed censorship in this thread either.  Simply restated some fears and opinions that have been expressed.  Tell me if I am wrong, but the dominant leadership here appears to be extreme liberals and greeners?  Or are you offended by those terms? 

Do you really think we need to beat around the bush here? 

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What does that mean?

Liberals and greeners? Why do you feel the need to keep pointing this out? (It's not even true, for what its worth.)


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Okay

It is called a generalization.  If it isn't true, then I welcome the correction. 

I suppose though you will tell me there isn't a strong liberal mindset here, especially amongst some of those running the place?

At any rate if you don't like being tagged a liberal, or a Greener, please tell me and I won't tag you as such anymore.   

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Six, I have some reluctance in the back of my head

and I'll voice it when I've given it a few days to all sink in. I really think it should be done in a constructive manner though. Name-calling isn't going to get us anywhere.

Oh, and liberals and greeners don't cover the bases. You have progressives, socialists, anarchists, and everything in-between running around on the blog.

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True

See above for "generalization" as I said though, liberals and greeners "running" the blog, not "running around" on the blog. 

Perhaps it is offensive to call someone a liberal or a greener?  If it is then I will quietly withdraw into my prior position.  I don't take offense at political labels that apply to me.

At any rate I am pretty sure Rick is either a liberal and/or a Greener, and does exercise a lot of influence on how things are done here, so I was at least somewhat correct.    

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Big "Rick" fetish you got going there.

Come over to my place and I'll give you the full meal deal.


> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
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I'm really trying to be serious

but Rick that statement sounds SO Creepy!!
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Mission Accomplished!


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Glad to see the funny...

..doesn't take everything quite so seriously Rick is still around. Some of us missed ya.
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Damn

Is that constructive?

Just a bit on the creepy side eh?

Seems to me you have your own "fetishes".

Do you have some anger management issues?  Or just some hidden desires?  Quite frankly you are really sounding creepy here.  

 

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Lighten up...

Mister BIG GUN guy. Do you wear it in bed? Can I touch it?


> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
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Are you gay?

A hoplophobe, or deep inside your head do you think you are giving me a taste of "my own medicine?"  Quite frankly I think you are showing your true self here, but in the intrests of good taste I am going to withhold opinions here.  You are doing a good job of making yourself out as an ass.

Save your strange attempts at counseling for people who pay you.   

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What???

You mean...you don't like my sense of humor big cowboy? Well, suck it up...or should I do that for you?


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Hehe

I find what you are saying quite funny, and funnier still in that I am fairly certain you are trying to "teach a lesson" here.  Your misguided attempts to mock my past behavior and make unfounded statements are quite humorous.  I hereby pass the OlyBlog Asshole Crown off to you Rick.

BTW, I don't recall having made sexually suggestive statements before, nor made implications about a person's sexual preferences.  I suggest you refrain from the same.  Even as over the top as I have been before, you are really pushing it.  

At any rate I suspect many here are enjoying the "Real Rick" coming out for a change.  Mr. Play Nice and Be Constructive seems to really be an angry homosexual hoplophobe with delusions of granduer.   

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Da big bad cowboy man doesn't want to play??

He only likes it when HE gets to make the rules. Well, honey, that ain't the way the world works. Could you use some other big words that no one knows?? Its soooooo sexy!!


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You are out of control

And I think it is funny as hell.  You have spent so much time working with unexpressive children that their mentality has finally stuck with you.  Maybe if you didn't get so wrapped up in your work and could seperate it from your regular life, you could cope better without having to resort to crudities and insults.

Go ahead and continue in this vein, it's funny, and entertaining.  Plus others are probably just shaking their heads at you Rick.

Perhaps you work well with children because you haven't gotten past some issues yourself?  Should I keep going?  I suspect I can push your buttons all night long, all day tomorow, and keep on going until I get bored. 

I deal with weirdos like you every day at work. Self righteous buffoons are a dime a dozen in this town, and worth about as much.

Shall I continue?  You felt the urge to make direct personal attacks and I am responding in kind.

Please note, that as a person who choses to be a gun rights supporter, making snide gun comments really doesn't irritate me.  I've come to expect that sort of limited mentality from people like you.  

You'll know when I get bored with you when I quit responding.  Meanwhile, as I said you are entertaining and even a bit funny in a sad, lonely sort of way.   

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I know, baby...

...you just keep coming back for more. You LIKE it like that, don't you?


> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
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I direct your attention

To your signature line Rick. 
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I just think you're so interesting.

I can't help it!


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Is This An Example

of what can potentially land you in the 'Dog House'? Or why we need a Social Contract?  If anybody else had said this, would it have been acceptable? 

Personally, I find it hilarious but coming from Rick it sure seems to be a double standard.  Especially when the Dog House was Rick's idea precisely for statements like this and he was the one that wrote the proposed Social Contract.

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Oh. Now it's all serious.

Who's got the double standard again?


> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
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Proof

It's OK for some, not others.  The difference is, the others can take it while some can't!

Have fun kiddos!  I'm getting some rest so I can ride the Toy Run tomorrow! 

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hmm...

I'm getting some rest so I can ride the Toy Run tomorrow!

I think it's the other comments that make this one questionable...

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I, for one, think this is hilarious!

Yay, Rick! I think this is the best thing I've ever read on Olyblog.

Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo

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It's not offensive to be

It's not offensive to be called a Liberal or Greener, especially if it's true. Just as it's not offensive to be called a Mexican or Jew. Unless you're being called something derisively (or being called it when you're not) in which case there's an apparent malignency in the term.

Tone and Intent mean everything in a conversation; Online communication makes it very difficult or impossible to know the tone and intent.

Please give me a second grace. Please give me a second face. I've fallen far down, the first time around, now I just sit on the ground in your way.
Nick Drake

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Exactly!

Bravo Merwyn! Well said :)
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Not all of the docents are liberal

and I know evergreen students who would disagree with being called a greener. Just because something is true, does not mean it's ok to be called that.
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What I mind

I don't mind being called a liberal or a greener or a feminist at all. What bothers me are accusations that Olyblog is dominated by such people when I have to slog through post after post after post written by angry conservatives, some of whom seem to have nothing better to do than read and comment on everything that is posted here. It often seems to me that Olyblog is dominated by conservative drivel: the reactionary, poorly thought out, not very funny, frequently paranoid, and often poorly written ramblings of outraged dinosaurs who are wondering where their privilege went.

Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo

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I resent that

not very funny - Really, that hurt

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Not you, Norm

Though I do put you in the "frequently paranoid" category, for obvious reasons.

Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo

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But....but....but.....

how can I be paranoid when they are REALLY after me all the time!?!?!?
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I have some

Festive tinfoil hats for sale.  Red, and green just in time for the holidays! :-p

 

 

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That's exactly how I've felt about Olyblog lately

It seems like some users are looking for a chatroom. I also think that those complaining of a lack of sense of humor around here just aren't very funny.

Rick, I thought the social contract looked great and appreciate all the time you've put into this.

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Are you all sure?

Olyblog isn't the only place that's been unruly lately as I'm sure you have noticed. Are we getting ready to make a more or less permanent change in reaction to temporary circumstances?
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I Second

CIAGuy's post.
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Oh yeah, I'll see you both

Oh yeah, I'll see you both by the flag pole at 3 o'clock. We'll see who's tougher!!!
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LOL

I keep waiting for the "nice and happy" Rick to pop out of his schizo shell and start talking about how this was all "a lesson in getting along" and "the value of constructive postings" and "really don't you think you were a jerk the other day six and see what it is like when directed at you" blah, blah, blah, blah.  I'm going to bed soon, I have to work early tomorow, so either end this BS now Rick, or I'll pick it up when I get home tomorow.
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Oh man.

You so don't have a clue do you? 'night sweetie pie!


> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
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anyway, good humor in it

anyway, good humor in it anyway. especially Rick telling someone "how the world works"....I am beginning to really love my exploration of the Olympia sub-culture that I was always aware of but to busy or disinterested to explore.
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Just amazing

Ain't it?  The funny part is he probably thinks he is teaching a lesson.  Or is on drugs.  Or both.

Oly is an amazing place, it always keeps me entertained.   

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I think

Rick hijacked his own thread!

As I said before, I have said a lot of offensive, and mean spirited things, but I have not made sexual suggestions nor until just recently refered to a person's sexual preferences.

Rick, while you are for the most part funny as hell tonight, you are really offensive with the whole guns as phallic symbols suggestions and related inuendos.  I probably am giving you more ammo by saying this, but do believe that you are the most offensive and out of control presence on this board now.  You made your point, albeit in a childish manner.  I'll keep up with your banter as long as I am awake, but will go on record for being offended at some of what you have brought up.

If you want to pretend you are teaching a lesson, that's fine.  Don't cross lines I haven't though.  It only shows your lack of judgement. 

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Sorry to rub your nose in it...

...but now perhaps you can apologize to Rob for using inappropriate humor when he was trying to have a serious conversation. You see, it's really all about paying attention to each other, listening, and not pushing the envelope at every opportunity. Here's a good strategy: imagine that you're going to be meeting up with everyone for a beer later -- so don't say things that you'd regret when you get together. (In fact, we'll probably start having regular meetups here pretty soon, so that people get to know each other in person.)


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Ahh

Rick's schizo other peace loving lesson teaching side comes back much as I predicted.  Who I apologize to and when is my business, and I don't need you directing otherwise.  Now would it be improper humor for me to call you a hack shrink?  Probably, but I'll bet you won't let me get away with a rhetorical question, the way someone else did just recently on this thread. 

I stated I will not issue an apology when it appears I am merely "ass kissing" in order to avoid some "dog house"  Now this could be taken several ways, including that I realize I was over the top, but at this point an apology would look meaningless as it would merely appear that I was trying to avoid "trouble"  

I have repeatedly acknowledged the fact that I was over the top.  

I wonder if the port protesters will apologize for interfering with a truck driver just trying to make a living?  Of course not, it was acceptable dissent, a protest against an "illegal" action.  But openly mocking and in the process making a dissenting statement against a percived "over the top" action and reaction becomes unacceptable.  

I will make an effort to avoid similiar "hijacking" but given the current state of affairs here, will not apologize for making a statement.  I have acknowledged the mistakes I made while engaging in dissent, and have stated that I will make an effort not to repeat my actions.  That Rick, will have to suffice for you.  

The schizo Rick is funny though.  You'll have to come out of your shell more often.  It makes you nearly believable as a human being.   

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My two cents - don't feel overcharged

This was Rick's thread (notice I'm not saying Blog so please don't mix the arguments) and he can let it go (or be hijacked) in any direction he wants.

Six, every time you said something to the effect of "please continue, you're entertaining" you got exactly what you asked for.

I was laughing (not sure with Rick, at Rick, or both) but seriously especially in light of the fact that we're supposed to be discussing the social contract, I wonder if the same style of antagonizing humor would be considered acceptable if used against Rob W. about Iraq, against Rob R. about the homeless, against Janet about PlanB, Against Enpen about spraypaint artists, Against Meta about her campaign.

Six, if someone's saying a gun owner is "compensating" then that's offensive, but pointing out that guns are phallic isn't. Damn straight they're phallic, that's why we all want the biggest straight-shooter that doesn't shoot blanks.

Rick's comment about the "Rick fetish" and offering the full meal deal didn't necessarily have a sexual connotation, at least not denotationally.

I'm sure things like this will be addressed in the wiki but would this kind of banter be considered constructive? Would it be considered two men not backing down from insulting each other, each trying to get the last defiant defining word?

Should I change my sig line to "I know you are but what am I"?

Please give me a second grace. Please give me a second face. I've fallen far down, the first time around, now I just sit on the ground in your way.
Nick Drake

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Good points...

Six, every time you said something to the effect of "please continue, you're entertaining" you got exactly what you asked for.

 

I know.  Much like a cat with a rodent while bored, The conversation was entertaining for a period of time.  At some point though, some of what was being directed towards me I considered over the bounds of acceptable, bored messing with someone postings.  I made those clear and stated my position.  Everything else, well as I said, it was funny to see a particular person act a certain way for a while. 

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Nice try, Rick

Thanks anyway.

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Hold on a second here. This

Hold on a second here. This is almost like every other discussion that goes on here. If that was anyone else who acted like that people would be piling on. Rick's comments were in a totally different league than just snarky remarks or fun. I personally don't really care, I think it is fun to get at each other, however if what he did was acceptable then the social contract is a great idea. It's going to be tough to violate it.
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I think that standards would be helpful.

And journalistic ethics about facts and accurate reporting, attributing correctly would be the way to go, but Olyblog carries a lot of posts that are more cultural and entertainment and not journalism.  This is part of the reason that newspapers are organized as they are.  Sports scores and stories are not generally front page stories, they are on the sports page.  Editorial columns are generally not front page, they are on the editorial page, local stories are in the metro section, arts, books, films are in the arts section. 

So I guess that is a suggestion to consider - maybe it makes sense to organize posts that are elevated to a home page from a personal blog into a blog section - news stories, true citizen journalism, like the fugitive arrest and some of the Port stories where standard journalistic standards apply.  

There could also be a sports/guns/nascar section. An uber liberal and greener editorial section.  A wingnut editorial section. 

And I think there should be a slander, libel and malicious mischief section. Kind of a hall of shame section.  

I think the social contract is wordy, no offense Rick, and would not reduce the conflict, tension, and anger that erupts here on occasion.  

And I guess I would add one more section: Yellow journalism for posts that masquerade as journalism, but don't meet the ethical standards.   

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I'd like to see the Social Contract blog

Started over again so that maybe it can be addressed originally intended.

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I second that.

Started over again so that maybe it can be addressed originally intended.
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Consent of the governed

Social contract theory derives from the notion that human beings are solely motivated by self interest and will only support the interests of others if there is an agreement, formal or informal, which establishes the parameters of acceptable behavior.

Although the proposed social contract appears to be well thought out and well intentioned, I personally am leery of encroachment upon my ability to freely express my thoughts.

I propose that public censure is adequate to check those who post items deemed inappropriate by the group. I believe that it would be impossible to encompass all potential problem areas--Justice Potter Stewart summed up this perspective nicely when he wrote, "[I] shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced within that shorthand description; and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But I know it when I see it. Jacobellis v. Ohio, 378 U.S. 184 (1964).
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I think the contract could be shorted up to

pretend you are a guest in someone's house.
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I like that idea...

...Guglielmo. And I also like the section idea from Mike. The less rules, the better, I'd say. I think people have got to work it out themselves.

I disagree with Security Six's characterization of folks. It certainly doesn't characterize me fully.

Finally, as far judging what a person is WORTH based on whatever information a person might have...

...I don't get that. My brain doesn't think like that and the idea that some people's brains go there, frankly, kinda scares me...

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The wiki is open...

...so anyone can change it to what they think is better.


> Say something interesting or say nothing at all. <
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So, how to I log in to edit the Wiki?

I tried my Olyblog account, but it didn't work.
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Most of this discussion was useless

Forty comments arguing about worries about liberals and greeners? That's why I don't waste my time here very often. That said, the Social Contract is a great idea. In contrast to the rather wandering and wording content at this time (see comment time stamp), I think the text should describe what Olyblog is for (more clearly than it is) and focus on how to make Olyblog work for that outcome. I see some of the wording now as focusing on means rather than ends. If the ends were more clearly stated, the means that can achieve them will be easier to describe. I'll return to make my suggestions in the Wiki when I figure out how to log in (hopefully without creating yet another user id).
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Thanks Rick

It appears we are talking about two different things: a mission statement, and a social contract on the boundaries of civility.

As far as a mission statement goes, does the blurb "OlyBlog is devoted to hyperlocal news and discussion specifically about Olympia, Washington. Contributors to OlyBlog are citizen journalists who care about their community and are tired of corporate media" really describe us? If so, most of my contribs are really outside the scope of OlyBlog.

The social contract, which I think even us old-timers need to sign and agree to before we could be allowed to continue, would be a good thing. I'd like it if the words "trolls," "assholes" and "caimans" appeared in it with frequency as examples of what not to be. Other than that, it doesn't seem too wordy to me.

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You forgot to mention

"asshats."
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The thought

crossed my mind, but I guess I wasn't sure if that would be a subset of one of the previously mentioned classifications. I propose we form a committee where we get to use clipboards, wear horn-rimmed glasses, and thoughtfully stare at the line where the wall and ceiling meet, asking out loud, "This term, 'asshat,' where does that belong in the lexicon of OlyBlog?"
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I think we should have a way to vote people off the island

Seriously. Not because we disagree with them, not even for a few transgressions of the social contract, but because they appear on the blog for no other reason than to trollishly derail discussions. I think that we would have to make the threshold for banning very high, to prevent little cabals from banning people who might actually have something to contribute -- but what about those situations in which absolutely no one sees any value in the presence of a frequent poster.... shouldn't we be able to rid ourselves of such a destructive presence?

Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo

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But I think Janet

has the hidden immunity idol!
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I think I'll be okay....

...until they start voting off my allies. The way I see it, the people with no friends will go first. As it should be.

Peace became pizza. -- Guglielmo

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